Gossip & hate speech are, unfortunately, gifts that keep giving.
What is the point of speaking meanly about those around you?
To know you and your friend 'hate' the same person?
✨ WooHoo! ✨
Now what?
what happens from there, do you then pretend to still be there friend?
Or
Just give each others glances when that person does that "thing" you two talked about being so annoying?
I'm sorry that we have all been exposed to gossip. In work, school and family life. We often here about the negatives other people have to offer first.
Anyone could be your best friend, but unfortunately we've been exposed to their negative traits prematurely.
Be it gossip or an off day, most people shut down friendships before they have a chance to develop. so since everyone around you gossips, why not stand out?
"Success is building a house with the bricks that are thrown at you"
Build yourself a house of bricks that actually means something. A mansion! This is your life and yours only!
(However, it may be best to allow others to vent to you in regards to their frustrations, you may be the only person they feel comfortable speaking to. However, if they ask your opinion, just give one that is constructive or say you don't know.)
Lastly, if someone asks you a dumb question, it's because they've noticed that you have quite the in understanding the answer. So there's your chance to teach and be kind to the people who care enough to improve!
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